- 1. Webster’s definition of “grind”
- 2. True mental toughness
- 3. Unconditional success
- 4. The road to freedom
- 4.1. The purpose of each shot
- 4.2. Positive thoughts
- 4.3. Belief
- 4.4. Overcoming mental obstacles
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See if any of this rings a bell around competition scenarios you have experienced. No matter what you do, no matter what ball, what angle, what strategy, you cannot carry the back row—or worse, you can’t get to the pocket consistently. It is confusing, frustrating, maddening. You cannot string strikes. Scores are low. You just have to grind through. You make the cut. Or you don’t. Either way, you are exhausted and spent.
Or you train. You practice. You work out. You get coached. It gets old. You are not improving at the rate that you want. You get bored. You stop enjoying what you are doing. You still practice and play. But, it’s a grind. You feel cranky.
The same experiences of putting in hours, time, and effort in school, work, and your relationships have the same quality. It’s not fun, results are slow. Frustration, disappointment, and answers about what to do better elude you.
“Satisfaction lies in the effort, not in the attainment, full effort is full victory.”
It is popular these days to feel congratulatory about “grinding it out” when things get tough. Athletes post on social media about fighting through a strenuous workout, making a cut when they can’t find a way to score, or simply declaring they are not quitting.
Somehow, we have come to believe that this is the highest mark of an athlete, to persevere when things get rough. It’s not. But we will get there in a minute.
Our culture is so skewed that we think the idea of “grit” is the very best thing that someone can have. Angela Duckworth’s book, Grit, is one of the biggest selling success books on the market right now. She cites research that says that grit is the “X factor” in most success. In our opinion, she is a little right and a little wrong. But more ...
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